Hello, readers.
Today’s poem isn’t quite the one that I was looking forward to sharing today, but after reading about the passing this past Wednesday of Eldridge Wayne Coleman—best known to professional wrestling fans and insiders as “Superstar” Billy Graham—I couldn’t help but offer my condolences to his widow Valerie Irwin, his children Joey and Capella Graham, and the rest of his family and friends as well as all his fans. I’m sure that not everyone has taken kindly to the guy for one reason or another (as is true with celebrities and other public figures in general, if not humanity as a whole) for some of the remarks he’s made in the not-too-distant past prior to succumbing to an ear infection in January that eventually spread to his ear bones and skull and the consequential complications he suffered from acute kidney failure, congestive heart failure, lung problems, diabetes, and hearing loss among other health complications. Nevertheless, the man made a profound mark in the professional wrestling industry during the 1970s and 80s and was particularly influential upon the likes of such similarly legendary performers as Hulk Hogan, “The Nature Boy” Ric Flair, Austin Idol, Stone Cold Steve Austin, Paul “Triple H” Levesque, Jesse “The Body” Ventura, and “Big Poppa Pump” Scott Steiner. Granted, my days as a wrestling fan may be over, but as someone who used to enjoy the art for what it was once upon a time and what it could one day be again with the right booking and presentation, I’d still like to say rest in peace to Superstar and thank him for his contributions to this oft-mocked yet nevertheless time-honored form of entertainment.
That said, while I much rather would have posted a poem honoring the fellow, what struck me more than Superstar’s passing was the disparagement in the comments section of the article’s MSN.com feed toward not only him, but to all pro wrestlers and to wrestling in general. I feel foolish, too, for neglecting to copy the article’s link so that you folks could read for yourselves the rude, snide, callous, childish, and condescending remarks that these keyboard warriors have made. Then again, maybe it’s for the better that I haven’t included said link here for fear that my doing so might further fuel the flame war that these loudmouths have obviously tried to instigate, and this pre-poem editorial that I’m writing as we speak is already a form of troll-feeding as matters stand, which I otherwise know better than to do. At the same time, though, I can’t help but vent about these scumbags and the unwarranted venom they’ve spewed, for whether they meant what they’ve said or are only egging wrestling fans on, the fact is that the circumstances don’t warrant it in the slightest. On one hand are those who called wrestling “nonsense,” a “clown show,” “theater of the absurd,” a “stupid soap opera,” “trash,” and a “total farce” and even equating it to The Jerry Springer Show, of all things. Yes, WWE figurehead Vince McMahon had Springer on WWE Television a couple of times prior to his demise, but really? All of wrestling being on the same level as Springer’s infamous trainwreck of a “talk show?” Then again, on the other hand are those who’ve accused professional wrestlers of being “phony athletes” and “overrated stuntmen and stuntwomen” who “didn’t [don’t] have enough talent to go to Hollywood” when I bet that the majority of these windbags could never outperform even the least impressive in-ring workers on their worst days over the course of the three hundred-plus-day schedule that many a wrestler has to work while on the road away from his, her, or their family. Heck, I’m willing to bet that these losers wouldn’t even last their first day or wrestling school without crying like the glorified babies they ultimately are. One poster even claimed that wrestling is “adored by the Trump cult followers” simply because McMahon has long been friends with former U.S. President Donald Trump and has featured him on WWE programming and had him inducted into WWE’s Hall of Fame. Another blowhard, meanwhile, has accused Americans specifically of believing that pro wrestling is real despite the general public having known for decades that the art form is, in fact, a work—“sports theater,” if you’d rather—rather than a genuine, full-fledged sport. Others still had the gall to announce that they weren’t going to miss Graham with one person in particular claiming that he/she/they was “happy” about the man’s death. If that last remark doesn’t show just how heartless and classless this poster particularly was in addition to everyone else who was flooding the comments section with such unsolicited malice, then I don’t know what to tell you. At any rate, these arrogant, mean-spirited brats made their stance on the business crystal clear for the entire world to read, much to my disgust and exasperation…and not even as a former wrestling fan, either, but purely as a human being.
Let me make this real to you, people: Back when I first started watching pro wrestling, few people, if any at all, bothered inquiring about whether it was real or not. Maybe we should have asked ourselves such a question, given the gimmicks that some of the wrestlers sported at the time from the “Ugandan Giant” Kamala, the Road Warriors, and George “The Animal” Steele to the kayfabe undead Undertaker and his demonic brother Kane to all the various characters in between from Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling, among other promotions of the era. Even after the revelation of wrestling being a stage production came to light, however, not only did fans of the art come to accept it, but there was even a short boom period in 1997 to 2001 that many a wrestling fan still holds dear to this day merely because of the characters who drew folks in to come see each promotion’s events. Sadly, the wrestling world has yet to capture that same spark that had made it so special back in the 1980s and ‘90s, which admittedly wasn’t a flawless era by any means, but that didn’t stop people of all kinds from watching the shows and supporting the business. Personal demographics made very little difference, too, when it came to the people who filled whatever arena a given wrestling show was taking place. Age, race, gender, religion, political affiliation, sexual preference, occupation, financial income—none of that made any difference when it came to who watched wrestling back then. We all arrived at the shows, saw what the promotions had to offer us, rooted for our favorite wrestlers to triumph over their opponents, and enjoyed whatever action we saw. The more profound the characters, the stronger the booking, and the fiercer the in-ring action, the more we loved the show, too, and the likelier we would be to return, regardless of what the non-fans thought of us or our enthusiasm for this given brand of “sports entertainment.” Alas, because the industry still hasn’t recovered from the “Great Wrestling Crash” of ‘01—much to my own chagrin, at the very least—and continues to wax and wane in quality without ever attaining (and maintaining) such a degree of excitement for reasons X, Y, and Z, it’s become so much easier for the denigrators of pro wrestling to mock it, calling it various insults from a “redneck sport” (I’m looking at you, YouTuber Super Bunnyhop.) to “homoerotic” (“DanB,” also from YouTube) and even calling its participants “hairless apes,” among other infantile pejoratives.
The fact remains, readers, that we all have our likes and dislikes in life, and just because certain people share a common interest or hobby that we don’t care for or about doesn’t automatically give any of us the right to bash them for it. It certainly doesn’t give us the right to verbally urinate, defecate, or vomit on someone, either, for being a participant in such a business. After all, even if not everyone loved “Superstar” Billy Graham while he was alive, he wasn’t someone who was in the same moral vein as Adolf Hitler, Joseph Stalin, Charlie Manson, John Wayne Gacy, etcetera, nor does he deserve to have his death celebrated or his choice of vocation trashed by a bunch of rotten apples who want to use his status as a pro wrestling legend to excrete all over him and the artform. Besides, what’s wrestling to these jerks, anyway? How has it affected their lives? Because as far as I’m concerned, pro wrestling is little more than an easy target for non-fans to attack chiefly because they don’t understand how it can be as popular as it is, given its confessedly fabricated nature. Throw in the inability of the wrestling business to regain and keep the ground it lost once upon a time, and that only makes it all the easier for outsiders to defame and rail against. It’s a shame, too, because it’s bad enough already that the decent people of the world who still enjoy and respect the art end up having to put up with the patronizing snobs, temperamental lunatics, thin-skinned fanboys and fangirls, posturing pseudo-alphas, whiny smarks, even whinier “anti-smarks,” and other idiots who undeniably still corrupt the fandom to which they belong and further give it a bad look. They shouldn’t have to additionally deal with those who dislike wrestling constantly barraging it and them with constant disdain and ridicule for whatever excuse fuels the latter’s unsolicited scoffing. After all, I’m not much into comic books, so why should I waste my time harassing anyone who enjoys them or any media based on a property owned by Marvel, DC, or any other comic book publisher when I can instead spend my energy doing something infinitely more productive? The same goes for anime, which I don’t even pay attention to in the first place. What sense is there especially in me shaming aficionados of Japanese animation for their interest when I can instead focus on what I do care about? Such is what I’d expect those who don’t care about or for pro wrestling would do. Don’t like it? Fine. Guess what, then: Either be civil when talking about it, or keep your opinion to yourself—especially when a beloved wrestler like “Superstar” Billy Graham passes away from sepsis and multiple organ failure well over a decade after his storied steroid abuse.
Seriously, folks, if only we could be more candid and less hostile when expressing our likes and dislikes on the Internet—and, for that matter, in the real world—then society would be that much more pleasant. To the people who’ve been mocking “Superstar” Billy Graham and professional wrestling in general shortly after his death, I say grow up, get off and stay off the ‘Net, and get a real hobby. Your childishness was and still is completely inexcusable, regardless of your motivation behind it, and I hope MSN.com bans your MSN accounts for abusing your privileges with their website’s services, as the world needs fewer soulless stinkpots like you shamelessly wearing your puerility on your sleeves for the entire planet to see. To Superstar’s fans and loved ones, in contrast, all I’ll say is that my prayers are with you. Finally, to Billy Graham himself—or, if you’d rather, Eldridge Wayne Coleman—rest in peace, and thank you for the memories.
Also, for those of you who are still interested in reading today’s poem, feel free to carry on down below, and thank you for your time.
Regards,
Dustin M. Weber
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Show Some Respect, Creeps!
May 18, 2023
A man died this week. Show some respect, creeps!
Hate wrestling? Keep your mouths shut and move on.
Get off your high horses and go to sleep.
For months, Eldridge Coleman’s had trouble deep,
No thanks to health ailments and now’s passed on.
A man died this week. Show some respect, creeps!
An icon for many who, today, weep.
From all walks of life, somber is their song.
Get off your high horses and go to sleep.
Guess who rides in, though, to mock the art (Creeps!)
And claim that all in it are in the wrong.
A man died this week. Show some respect, creeps!
“Stuntmen,” “no talent,” “phony”…disdain deep
From the mouths of spiteful, heartless morons…
Get off your high horses and go to sleep.
Spare the world your spleen. Let the mournful weep
And the man you mindlessly mock pass on.
A man died this week. Show some respect, creeps!
Get off your high horses and go to sleep.
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